I thought the best place to start was to describe who I think my blog is for (besides me).
My viewpoint is that of almost-50-year-old man in a monogamous relationship with his wife. My relationship with my wife has been and currently is really good. I didn’t decide to start dating my wife because something was terribly wrong. I wanted to start dating my wife again because I want an absolutely excellent relationship – not just a very good one.
So, if you are a 17-year-old looking for dating advice, I’m fairly sure there are better places to look. If you are a wife, looking to date her husband, there are literally tons of resources available for you other than this website. If you’re in a non-monogamous relationship, looking to take it up a few notches, I probably won’t be speaking directly to you.
If you’re a husband, whose relationship with his wife is currently in crisis, I think you need to talk to a therapist, not read my blog.
As soon as I decided that I wanted to date my wife again, I started doing research. I’ve looked at tons of websites, read plenty of blogs, read books and magazines, and spoken to people from every walk of life. So far, I have come to one unavoidable conclusion: there’s not enough love in the world.
Regardless of how old you are, regardless of what type of relationship you have, regardless of where you live, if you read this blog and get absolutely anything good out of it, well, you’ve made me a happy person.
And you’ve added just a bit more love in this world.